The Way We Think

Criticism, Comparison, fight and blaming: what you can achieve from these four things?

But we call these as constructive feedback. As far as I concern each person in his/her life has already faced a lot of criticism, comparison and blaming. Have you ever thought whether that could help others or not? For everyone this is something common in their life. Whenever they do something they expect criticism rather than appreciation. So they are well prepared to face those things in life, either by not listening to it or by just nodding their head. And the thing is that, that makes no difference in them or in society.

Blaming on a group or a system will give some kind of relief to us. But that can make no difference as well. Why can’t we think in terms of reasons?

As an example when a mosquito bites you may blame the system or creator then you will go to sleep again. And also we think mosquitoes are useless creatures for us. But what difference it can make?

 Just think in terms of what is happening with that process? 

When a mosquito bite an HIV infected person and when the same mosquito bites a normal healthy person: why it is not transmitting? And think the same for leach and other blood sucking insects.

Why it is not transmitting? This kind of thinking will make a difference to the society and to us. And when we go in detail to that, we will get a solution for that also. 

The solution which I got is, “those creatures have saliva which will deactivate the virus” and when we think in terms of that why can’t we think like “why this saliva can’t be used to derive antibody in human, which can prevent HIV!  That kind of thinking will help, right?

When you fight, criticize or when you blame you will lose a person’s heart.  But when we appreciate someone, that will make him to think like “I dint even put my full effort, and that could make me to get noticed in this small crowd, so what will happen when I put my full talent to that? “. And I am sure that next time he will improve his skills and he will make the next session more powerful.